No, it doesn't matter what part scares you. [ At least this question, she can answer without hesitation. ] The consideration is still important, however.

[ The thinking matters, not turning away matters, acceptance matters. And it's something that takes time; this isn't a conversation that can be rushed. ]

If all of this is true, and you are able to go back, would you live any differently than you had before? Having regrets is at odds to wanting everything to go back to how it was.